So after thinking for a while and practically losing sleep over this, ive decided that the MPerf spoiler is not the look I'm going for, so I've listed it for sale here
https://f87.bimmerpost.com/forums/sh...3#post30457463
Theres nothing wrong with the spoiler or the company selling it at all, its just a little bigger and more attention-drawing in person than it looked in the photos.
I plan to reinstall the OEM lip spoiler. I may paint it black though.
Keeping the diffuser, I absolutely love the diffuser!!