yes exactly; my harness orientation is wrong.
everyones plugs in like yours except for mine - that is what's mind boggling and hadn't paid attention to it until after the sensor broke.
Yup the car was bought new.
I had the plug changed after it broke; the replacement plug is indeed blue (originally it was black/grey like yours).
Here's how mine looks plugged in:
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